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Best Practice for Letter Writing

Before you start writing, keep in mind that:

  • there exists a power differential between you and your comrade, make sure you do not write anything that may cause further harm to the survivors.

  • there are mixed literacy levels among incarcerated people, avoid using big words.

  • LETTERS ARE NOT PRIVATE, all mail are opened by prison staff before being delivered.

Requirements

Address and Formatting

  • Include a cover sheet with your comrade's inmate ID number and the contents of your letter on it (e.g. 1 two page letter, 1 photograph) 

  • On every page, write your comrade’s name, and inmate ID number in the top right-hand corner 

  • If you are including a photograph, write your comrade’s name, and inmate ID number on the back of the photo

  • If you would like to receive a reply, include the SARP office address in the body of your letter (envelopes may be destroyed during checks)

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Pages

Set Boundaries and Expectations

  • Do not exceed the page limit of 1 double-sided sheet 

  • The cover sheet and any photographs are not included in the page count

  • How often will they be hearing from you?

  • What kind of relationship do you want? (e.g. one-off, pen pal)

  • DO NOT MAKE PROMISES YOU CANNOT KEEP

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Banned Materials

Some materials are censored at most prisons, avoid using them to ensure your mail has the greatest chance of making it to your comrade inside

  • Thick, multi-layered greeting cards 

  • Colored paper of any kind

  • Stickers, glue, confetti, glitter, ribbons/ additional items on greeting cards

  • Oversized envelopes 

  • Drawings on envelopes

  • Crayon and colored markers

  • Tape on envelopes in general

  • Peel and press envelopes and envelopes with metal brads that press down

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